A Beautiful Life is Your Calling

It was a simple phrase I came across, but it stopped me in my tracks: A beautiful life is your calling. Not just a hope. Not a luxury. A calling. It reminded me that a life well lived is crafted not by grand moments, but by intentional choices—especially in how we treat others. As I’ve been reading John Maxwell’s 25 Ways to Win With People, I’ve been reminded of three simple but powerful actions that have shaped my life and could shape yours. These aren’t theories. They’re things I’ve lived, moments that have left their mark. And I believe they are stepping stones on the path toward a truly beautiful life.

Practice The 30-Second Rule
Maxwell suggests that within the first 30 seconds of meeting someone, we should find something encouraging to say. A kind word. A compliment. A recognition of their worth. This is more than good manners—it’s a way of seeing people. Everyone is carrying something heavy, and you never know when your words will be the spark that reignites their hope. I’ve tried to live by this, and I can tell you: one uplifting word can change a person’s whole trajectory.

Let People Know You Need Them
Leadership isn’t about doing it all yourself. It’s about inviting others into something meaningful. Years ago, when I was helping lead our Wednesday morning prayer breakfasts, we were feeding over 200 people each week. It would have been impossible without the army of volunteers and students who rolled up their sleeves and shared messages of love and hope. I learned the power of telling people, “I can’t do this without you.” Because the truth is—we’re better together.

Create a Memory and Visit It Often
There are moments we carry in our hearts like treasure. One of mine is a trip I took with my granddaughter Jadyn to Nashville. Just the two of us. I pulled out all the stops—country music landmarks, five-star meals, laughter that echoed down hallways of our hotel. It wasn’t just a vacation; it was a moment planted deep in the soil of our relationship. And every time I revisit that memory, I’m reminded: don’t wait. Make memories now. You’ll need them later.

You don’t have to be famous, wealthy, or extraordinary to live a beautiful life. You just have to be intentional. Encourage others. Invite them in. Create meaningful memories. That’s how we leave fingerprints on the hearts of those we love—and answer the call of a beautiful life well lived.

“The Power of Partnership: When Alliance Becomes Art”

It’s not every day that someone walks into your life who not only appreciates your work—but amplifies it. Melissa Greer is one of those rare people. Known widely as one of Greensboro’s top real estate professionals, she also brings something invaluable to the table: a heart for community and an eye for authentic connection.

Our paths crossed through art, but what’s developed is something far more meaningful. Recently, Melissa and her team visited my studio to film a feature that would showcase both my journey and our shared love for Greensboro. What came out of that visit wasn’t just a video—it was a visual story of alliance, trust, and how two people in entirely different professions can shine a brighter light together.

Three Points (The A.R.T. of Marketing in Action):

1. Alliance: It’s More Than Just a Collaboration
True partnership happens when two individuals with aligned values come together for a greater purpose. Melissa’s feature wasn’t just about me—it was about showcasing the creative spirit of Greensboro. Her support of my work, her belief in The Honor Card program, and her willingness to share her platform shows what it means to genuinely lift one another up.

2. Resourcefulness: Amplifying Stories That Matter
Melissa is a master of marketing—blending creativity, strategy, and purpose. Her campaign not only spotlighted my work but created an opportunity to reach new audiences through social media, YouTube, and email. By using her resources to tell a deeper story, she reminded me that sharing what we love is one of the most effective forms of communication.

3. Tenacity: Thriving in Tough Industries
Both real estate and the arts are notoriously competitive. What I admire most about Melissa is her perseverance. We’ve each carved out long-standing careers through grit, evolution, and staying true to our voice. This collaboration highlights that success isn’t just about surviving—it’s about staying passionate, showing up, and giving generously.

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Partnerships like this are a reminder that success is never a solo act. It’s about recognizing the people who believe in you, support your mission, and are willing to share their spotlight.

Melissa didn’t just help tell my story—she reminded me why I do what I do. If you’re looking for inspiration, I encourage you to think about the alliances in your own life. Who champions your work? Who deserves your gratitude? And who might you team up with next to make a greater difference?

Because when alliance meets authenticity, magic happens.

The American Way: A Porch, A Painting, A Powerful Reminder

This Fourth of July, I’m reminded not just of fireworks and flags—but of the quiet moments when we come together, step up, and remind each other what it truly means to be American.

In the uncertain days following 9/11, like many of you, I found myself asking what really mattered. The headlines were heavy, and our country’s heart was tender. It was during this time that our local United Way faced a critical shortfall—one that jeopardized the vital programs so many of our neighbors relied upon.

That’s when WFMY News 2 stepped forward—not just to report the story, but to lead the charge. Their team asked a simple but profound question: What if we could rally the community around a symbol of home, hope, and help?

Enter one artist… and one painting.

The Painting That Spoke Without Words

American Way was a scene I had just completed—a quiet Southern porch from one of our historic neighborhoods. The worn steps, the waving flag, the pumpkins and potted flowers… it was humble, yet heartfelt.

We decided to offer signed prints for a $25 donation. No fancy campaign. Just a sincere invitation to give.

By the end of the week-long effort, our community had raised over $216,000—enough to meet the shortfall and keep vital services going. All from a painting… and the collective heartbeat of a community that refused to look the other way.

Three Reflections That Still Resonate

1. Small Gifts, Big Impact
A porch. A brushstroke. A single donation. Never underestimate the ripple effect when one person steps forward with what they have.

2. The Power of Partnership
When media, mission, and meaning align—change happens. WFMY didn’t just report the news; they became part of the solution.

3. Freedom to Serve
The greatest freedom we have isn't just the right to speak, but the ability to act. To use our time, talent, and treasure to uplift those around us.

A Closing Thought for This Fourth of July

As you gather with loved ones this Independence Day, take a moment to embrace the simple joys—a good meal, a familiar porch, the company of friends. These are the treasures that define our lives. And in times of need, never doubt that your gifts—whatever they are—can help light the way for someone else.

That, to me, is the American Way.

"Steal Like a Professional: The Art of Becoming Unforgettable"

I’ll never forget the day I unveiled Hustling Johnny—a vivid portrait of a slick, streetwise pool shark that captured the cunning dance between talent and deception. The piece won national acclaim, opening doors for me as a young artist. But what followed was unexpected. The image was stolen, reproduced, and sold worldwide without permission. My team sent cease-and-desist letters, but they went unanswered. At first, I was furious. But over time, I realized: maybe there was a hint of a compliment in the situation. Someone had stolen but I only wish they would have "stolen like an artist.”

That phrase would come full circle years later when I read Austin Kleon’s book Steal Like an Artist. It’s a brilliant little manifesto of creative truths—10 powerful principles that, frankly, don’t just apply to artists. They apply to anyone trying to make a living doing meaningful work.

Three Lessons from the Book That Shaped My Journey

1. Nothing Is Original—But Your Voice Can Be
Kleon reminds us that creativity is about collecting, connecting, and reinterpreting—not starting from scratch. I’ve borrowed from Andrew Wyeth’s emotional restraint, the looseness of John Singer Sargent, and the modern edge of Wolf Kahn. But I never copied them—I studied, filtered, and let their influence shape my voice. You can do the same. Stealing wisely isn’t theft—it’s transformation.

2. Your Career Demands More Than Talent
I’ve often been told, “You’re so lucky to make a living as an artist.” But luck didn’t build this 50-year career. Alliance, Resourcefulness, and Tenacity—my personal A.R.T. of success—did. I aligned with the right partners, found inventive ways to create opportunities, and refused to quit when things got hard. Kleon’s advice is clear: don’t wait for permission. Make your own momentum.

3. Share Generously, Stay Curious
The artist’s path is not a straight line—it’s a messy, shared experience. Whether you’re speaking, designing, building, or leading, Kleon’s advice to “do good work and share it with people” is gold. That’s how we grow communities and careers. I’ve spoken to countless groups who’ve said, “I didn’t just hear your story—I saw myself in it.” That only happens when you create from a place of humility and curiosity.

Closing Thought:
In a world full of copycats and AI clones, authenticity still wins. Learn from those who came before you. Borrow their structure, remix their style, but never lose your voice. Whether you’re painting, pitching, or planning your next big idea—steal like an artist… and succeed like a pro.

What If One Afternoon Could Change a Life?
An unexpected studio visit reminded me how simple encouragement can ignite a lifelong passion.

When twelve-year-old Drew first stepped into my studio, she clung close to her dad, Eric—a proud father whose eyes sparkled as he spoke of his daughter’s budding interest in art. Though my gallery space is designed to be inviting and relaxed, I could see in her eyes the quiet intimidation that often greets something new. After all, she was walking into a space surrounded by more than sixty original works—each bursting with color, movement, and meaning.

But that’s where the story began.

With a soft drink in hand and a gentle nudge from conversation, Drew began to relax. I guided her through the various themes of my work—some rooted in familiar landscapes, others abstract and open to interpretation. The ice officially broke when I took her behind the scenes into the studio itself—where the real magic happens. Her eyes widened with wonder. She asked questions. She noticed things most people overlook. And then, with a little encouragement, she stepped up to try her hand at painting.

I handed her a brush far larger than she expected—not to overwhelm her, but to show how bold choices often unlock unexpected results. At first, she hesitated. But with a little guidance, and a quiet cheer from across the table, she began to make her mark. Between brushstrokes and sips of Coke, she came to life.

That afternoon reminded me of three timeless truths:

Three Takeaways:

Confidence is Contagious
A gentle word and an open seat at the table can shift a young person’s posture from fear to freedom. You don’t have to have all the answers—just the willingness to make room for someone else’s beginning.

Simplicity Builds Foundations
It’s easy to forget how much there is to learn in the basics. Even as professionals, returning to elementary ideas—how brushes behave, how color moves, how light plays—keeps us grounded and inspired.

Encouragement Can Redirect a Life
Sometimes the best thing we can offer isn’t instruction—it’s belief. Watching Drew’s confidence grow reminded me that one positive experience can change someone’s direction, maybe even forever.

As they prepared to leave we relived the experience. The next day, I received a message from Eric: they had already bought a ton of art supplies, and were painting together. That’s the real reward. Not just the creation of art—but the creation of confidence, connection, and the courage to keep going.

You never know what spark you’re striking when you open your studio—or your heart—to someone just beginning their journey.