Brake for Squirrels—And Life Lessons

This morning, as I left my workout and turned onto Battleground Avenue—a bustling artery six lanes of Greensboro traffic—I found myself in a slow-motion moment of comedy and clarity.

A squirrel, with more courage than common sense, darted out from the sidewalk and made a run for it. I braked just in time as it zipped in front of my car. It nearly made it to safety… only to hesitate, see the oncoming traffic in the other direction and did a full U-turn mid-intersection, and ran right back in front of me again. Another brake. Another gasp. Another pivot. And then, finally, it charged across with unshakable commitment to the original goal.
As I drove off, a smirk on my face and my heart a little lighter, I couldn’t help but think—there’s a lesson in that squirrel’s frantic, fearless dash.

Three Takeaways from the Battleground Squirrel

Don’t Let Uncertainty Derail You
The squirrel nearly made it, but second-guessed the oncoming cars. How often  do we do the same? When facing resistance or uncertainty, we retreat—even if we were steps from success.  Trust the direction you’ve chosen after thoughtful consideration, and move forward.

Looking Both Ways Isn’t Just for Traffic
Preparation matters. That squirrel made  a bold move, but a little more pre-check might’ve saved it from two near-death experiences. Whether it’s launching a business, planning a new project, or navigating life changes—take time to assess the risks and lay out a smart route.

Commit to the Finish Line
Once the squirrel finally made up its mind, it ran like its life depended on it—and it did. There’s power in full commitment. Half-measures and hesitations can be dangerous. When you've charted your course, put your energy behind it and don’t look back.

Sometimes, life is taught through squirrels. That little acrobat on Battleground Avenue reminded me how easy it is to lose focus under pressure, how valuable preparation is, and how important it is to commit when you’ve made a decision. 
In a world full of distractions and detours, stay the course—because the other side might be just a few strides away.

Journey with Me: What the Creative Process Taught Me About Leadership and Life

Every meaningful endeavor begins with a decision. You don’t drift into excellence—you commit to it.

That’s how each of my projects begins: with a date circled on the calendar and a vision I want to bring to life. Not every detail is clear at the outset, but naming the goal gives the journey its direction.

My latest exhibition, Journey with Me, began that way. But along the path of creating nearly 40 new pieces, I found myself reflecting on the deeper patterns that shape not only my studio life—but also the way we lead, create, and pursue progress in any field.

Whether you’re guiding a team, building a company, or working toward a personal goal, here are three lessons I’ve learned from the creative process that apply far beyond the canvas:

Start with structure—but leave room for discovery.
Every project needs a framework—a date, a theme, a purpose. That’s what keeps things from becoming chaotic. But creativity and innovation often show up once you’ve begun. In my world, that might look like a composition taking an unexpected turn. In yours, it could be a team member offering an insight you hadn’t seen, or a new path emerging once the wheels are in motion.

Progress isn’t found in the perfect plan. It’s found in motion.

Momentum is your ally—don’t let it stall.  

One of my quiet strategies is to always leave something unfinished at the end of the day. That way, when I return, I’m not facing a  blank canvas—I’m stepping into a rhythm.  That principle applies in leadership, too. Keep something waiting for you. Don’t start cold every morning. Build habits that carry you forward.

Success rarely comes from inspiration alone
—it comes from sustaining motion, even in small ways.

Not everything will go smoothly—and that’s part of the process.
Some pieces I thought would sing… fell flat. 
I had to step away. Others felt like dead ends, only to open up later when I revisited them. In business and life, you’ll have false starts, moments of doubt, and things you need to set aside temporarily. That’s not failure—it’s refinement.

Sometimes the best work is born out of struggle that forces you to grow in ways you didn’t expect.

So here’s my encouragement to anyone facing a challenge or goal that feels bigger than them:

Circle the date. Choose your direction. Start—ready or not. And then stay in the work. Stay in the story. You may not see the masterpiece yet, but something meaningful is forming.

Journey with Me isn’t just a title. It’s an invitation—to reflect on how the things we build, lead, and create often mirror the very journey we’re walking ourselves. 

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What’s In Your Hands? Rediscovering the Power You Already Hold

I was cleaning out a drawer in my studio not long ago when I stumbled across a brush I hadn’t used in years. The bristles were worn, the handle nicked from years of work—but as I turned it over in my hand, I was reminded of all the canvases it had touched. That single brush had helped create scenes that now hung in homes, boardrooms, and galleries. Not because it was special, but because I used it.

We often overlook what’s right in front of us—especially the talents, tools, and experiences that have shaped our journey. We think we need something new, something more, to make a difference. But the truth is, the most profound change often begins with what’s already in our hands.

Whether you're a business leader, creative, parent, teacher, or team member—you are already equipped with something uniquely valuable.

Three Things You Might Be Holding Without Realizing It:

A Story That Could Set Someone Free
We discount our experiences because they’re “ordinary.” But ordinary stories—ones of struggle, grit, humor, or faith—often carry the most power. You don’t have to be polished, just present. Someone out there is waiting for your realness.

A Gift You’ve Grown Too Familiar With
Talent loses its shine when it becomes routine. But that thing you do effortlessly—organizing a team, lifting someone’s spirits, painting a sunrise, writing a thoughtful note—may be the very gift someone else desperately needs.

A Platform You Haven’t Fully Claimed
Your voice, your network, your role—they all carry influence. The question isn’t whether you have a platform. It’s whether you’re using it with intention. Even a small gesture can ripple far beyond what you see.

In many of my keynote presentations, I’m asked what drives my daily focus and resilience. My answer is rooted in something simple: a deep sense of gratitude—for the talents I’ve been given and the calling to use them with purpose. I begin each day reminding myself that I already have what I need. The challenge—and the reward—is in showing up, staying grounded, and choosing to make a difference with what’s in my hands.

If you’re a meeting planner looking to equip and inspire your audience, I’d love to offer you a copy of my book Reflections—a collection of insights and artwork that continues this conversation. It’s my gift to those creating meaningful experiences for others.

So I ask you today: What’s in your hands? And how might you use it to make a difference—not someday, but today?

 Fueling Each Morning with Purpose and Perspective: How I Start My Day

Mornings aren't always easy—especially when you carry the reminders of surgeries and past challenges in your body. I know the feeling well. Most days, the temptation to linger in bed is strong, but I’ve learned that how you start your day sets the tone for how you live it. Over the years, I’ve built a simple but powerful morning routine that helps me refocus, reenergize, and realign. It’s a practice that takes only 15 to 30 minutes but has changed the trajectory of my days—and I hope it might inspire yours.

The Power of a Purposeful Morning Routine:

Ground Yourself with Perspective
One of the first things I do in the morning is seek out encouraging words—not from the news, but from trusted voices that speak to my spirit. I rely on Our Daily Bread, Daily Hope with Rick Warren, and The Daily Motivator by Ralph Marston. Each offers a daily dose of wisdom, reminding me that I am not alone and that today holds opportunity and promise.

Surround Yourself with Inspiration
Dr. Nido Qubein of High Point University once said, “Who you spend time with is who you become.” Each Monday morning, I receive his High Point University Daily Motivation, which delivers insights from business leaders and thinkers across the country. These short reflections challenge me to lead with intention and remind me that success is  a mindset.

Feed Your Soul While Moving Your Body
Whether I’m walking, lifting weights, or simply getting ready for the day, I often listen to Rick Warren’s messages. His words, grounded in the principles of The Purpose Driven Life, encourage me to lead a life that matters—not just professionally, but personally and spiritually. Purpose is fuel, and it keeps us moving when comfort begs us to stand still.

In many of my keynote presentations, I’m often asked, “How do you start your day?” It’s a question that reflects the deeper curiosity people have about how to stay consistent, inspired, and purposeful. This article is my answer—and a reflection of the rhythm that fuels both my creativity and commitment to making a difference.

Years ago, I collaborated with Ralph Marston to create a book titled Reflections, blending his inspiring messages with my artwork. It’s a reminder that Your Life is a Reflection of Your Thoughts—and that beauty, hope, and strength often begin with what you allow into your mind and heart each morning.

“It Just Takes Time, Honey: A Mother’s Love That Endures”

I remember the sound of her voice more than the details of what she wore. My mother didn’t speak much after her stroke—at just 36, a misdiagnosis left her partially paralyzed and struggling to string sentences together. But when she did speak, her words carried more weight than anyone else’s in the room. And there’s one phrase that has stayed with me all these years, echoing through my own moments of despair: “It just takes time, honey.”

My mother didn’t have a fair hand dealt to her. She made some poor choices along the way—who among us hasn’t?—but when life tried to silence her, she chose instead to speak through grace, resilience, and a quiet faith that radiated strength. Even as she depended on others, she never stopped showing up for them. She became the bright spark in any gathering, known for her birthday cards, sweet notes, and her genuine love for people.

Years later, when I faced my own personal reckoning—bankruptcy, a young family, and a heavy heart—I found myself leaning on her words more than ever. Her voice, shaky but sure, reminded me that healing and redemption don’t always come in grand gestures. Sometimes they come in pieces—like her words, like my art, like life itself.

Three Quiet Lessons My Mother Taught Me:

1. Strength Doesn’t Always Roar
My mother couldn’t walk without assistance or speak in long sentences, but her presence filled the room. She never complained. Her faith didn’t make her louder—it made her steadfast. Real strength is often found in the quiet perseverance to keep going.

2. Encourage with What You Have
She couldn’t do everything, but she always found a way to do something. A birthday card. A smile. A simple, thoughtful phrase. In a world often obsessed with doing more, she reminded me that sometimes the smallest gesture carries the greatest impact.

3. Time Heals in Increments
When life comes undone, we want instant fixes. But healing rarely works that way. My mother’s life—and my own story—show that time, coupled with faith and the love of those around us, can transform even the darkest seasons into unexpected blessings.

A Word to the Wounded

For some, Mother’s Day reopens old wounds—of loss, distance, or absence. If you never knew the comfort of a nurturing mother, I want to acknowledge your pain. May you find healing in the presence of other encouragers in your life—mentors, friends, or even strangers who believe in you.

As we approach Mother’s Day, I encourage you to pause. Whether your memories are fond or fractured, reflect on the moments that shaped you. For me, it’s my mother’s determination, her humor through hardship, and those tender words that still guide me: “It just takes time, honey.”
Life has a way of coming full circle. Sometimes, the words we heard as children become the lifelines we offer to others.